You don’t know me! And if you’ve never met me, you really don’t know me. If you have already formulated an opinion of me based on whatever fabrication someone has fed you, then you really don’t need to get to know me. Trust me, the a-hole I am has been a long time coming. Like many people say but don’t really mean – if you want to get to know me, ask me. I don’t need to lie to you. There really is no purpose. At the end of the day, your opinion of me has very little baring on my life.
I’m black, white, and gray! That’s right. I’m a liberal conservative. I’m judgmentally carefree. At the end of the day, I do me and I sure hope that you do you. I’m masculinely feminine. I’m a fun loving bore. I’m a kind jerk. I’m complexly simple. I’m an honest liar. I will lie to protect the innocent but I will tell you the truth if it really doesn’t matter. I don’t really play favorites. I dislike everyone almost equally. I heart black people but I hate black people. I hate white people but I like white people. I hate that I love people. If I like you, I like you. If I don’t like you, I don’t like you. I care so much but I could really care less. I’m not unique, but I am. If you don’t like me, you probably don’t like yourself. If you like me, you probably don’t like yourself. You can’t just put me in your pocket. I’m just not that person!
I don’t know you. I don’t know how you think, how you feel, how you act, or even why you act that way. I don’t know who you sleep with, why you sleep with them, or what your favorite position is. I don’t know where you live, why you live there, or how you’re living. And, I don’t care! At the end of the day, I want you to live your life and enjoy it. I need you to understand that the things you do don’t affect me so, feel free to live yours.
Someone once called me judgmental. Unfortunately, she got it wrong. While I might have an opinion on something, I never judge people. I’m not perfect. I do things that I don’t even agree with. I am entitled to comment in the privacy of my space about something. That doesn’t mean that I am judging them. If I were to write a list of things that I don’t agree with – that I abhor even, then my friends and I would all be on the list. If I was that judgmental, my friends wouldn’t look the way they do or be who they are. If you are a man who sleeps with me sometimes but loves women – do you. If you are a woman that sleeps with women that loves men – do you. If you are a religious fanatic who engages daily or often in pre-marital sex – do you. If you are a chick who finds sex through ads online – do you. If you are a adamant Jesus hater that calls on God once in a while – do you. If you are a husband who sometimes cheats on his wife – do you. If you are a wife who sometimes cheats on your husband – do you. If you are a vegan who eats meat sometimes – do you. If you are a lesbian who wants to have a baby the way other women have babies – do you. If you are a male chauvinist that loves a woman to dominate you in the bed – do you. Pick your poison! Just know that, at the end of the day, the things that people see on the outside, or the things that people tell you about others, may simply be their perception. And those things that you see on the outside cannot begin to define who that individual really is.
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